Heavy Ego? Take a load off.

Reminiscing about the first time I entered the gym, (and really took it serious) I imagined the videos you see on YouTube. Being a big dude just throwing weights around yelling, "Light weight!" "Nothin' but a peanut," but little did I know it’s not that simple. This long and hard road that you're about to embark on, so start with getting your ego in check!

Ego can be defined as, "reactions to the outside world and thus mediates between the primitive drive of an individual’s identity and the demands of the social and physical environment surrounding them" (dictionary.com).

Now, how does this relate to the gym? Take a look around the next time you enter the gym. Are there people that are bigger, stronger, and more ripped than you? Of course! How you take that into consideration is what will help you achieve your personal goals. You identify as being someone that is larger even though you are not quite there yet. Then take into consideration of your environment as you try and stack up, trying the same weight they use, or trying more, just to show them up. It would be great if it was that easy, but it isn't.

So STOP, right here. Think about this, do you want to be someone else or are you doing this for you? Who cares how much you bench? Who cares if you can squat 1000 pounds? It would be awesome to say you can do that but how practical is that for you?

Starting out for me, in a college gym, it was all about the numbers. I thought that that was what bodybuilding was all about, but quickly I found out I was wrong. I wasted a solid three months of my time (and supplements) trying to use momentum to move weights, rather than using proper form and stretching and contacting my muscles to build consistent strength and size. For example, I would try to bench more than I could handle, banging weight off my chest trying to get anything going so I could get the weight up. Not knowing that I could just have easily brought the amount weight down and slowly controlled the weight and lightly touch my chest then push it back to the starting position and see greater results.

With that being said, here are three main things you need to focus on:

Proper Form:

This will prevent injury, have a better transfer of power and hit the correct muscle you are trying to target. I never learned correct form until I got injured, don't wait, ask someone for help!

Full Range of Motion:

Full range of motion will make sure all of the muscle fibers are being activated and not just half of the muscle, or even the wrong muscle.

Mind Muscle Connection:

When you work on a specific muscle you need to squeeze that muscle and be sure you’re thinking in your head that specific body part. For example, if you're doing chest think about streching your Pecs as you come down and then squeezing your Pecs together has you come to the top of a fly or press.

It's not about the weight, it’s about the resistance. A bodybuilder uses resistance and is not concerned about the weight rather than the contractions within the muscle they are working. Eventually this resistance will need to be greater because your body will adapt.

Lifting heavy doesn't focus on the contraction and tearing of muscular fibers that will cause your body to create tears in your muscle that can then be rebuilt to be stronger and larger. Don't get me wrong it will create tears in your muscle and you will get stronger but, there is a far greater risk of injury. There is a difference between weightlifting and bodybuilding (I will write more about in another post).

Lifting heavy, I suffered multiple shoulder injuries as well as causing harm to my lower back from heavy improper squats. I also found out, from taking before and after pictures, my body composition didn't change, not even a little bit.

Dropping the weight down I have seen the most growth, and so have the pros.

Here is a video that sticks with me whenever I work out:



In order to grow, sculpt and change your physique your muscle needs to "stretch and it needs to contract," just like Kai said it’s not about the weight "I will never be a weightlifter." Full range of motion, like I said earlier, is the key to really getting the muscle fibers to tear and creating tears those tears your body will naturally rebuild those fibers. This also causes your body to adapt to the resistance calling for more resistance to get the same effect. It looks impressive when people fling their body back as they do bicep curls, but are they working their biceps? There are exceptions to this, like negative reps, but that is for another post.

Ask Yourself:

Do I want to move around as much as I can and try to be a power lifter? Or do I want to build muscle and try to sculpt my body the way I want?

The choice is yours, but ultimately, bodybuilding is a lifestyle and is a huge commitment. This is a sport that does not bring you instant satisfaction. These things take time, strength will come, size will come, and you need to be patient. Put that Ego aside and get contracting at whatever weight that may be as long as you perform the exercises properly there is no reason why you should be embarrassed or feel self conscious.

I hate to do it but, Tony Horton once said, "do your best and forget the rest." Live by this, because all you really can do is what your body and mind will allow at first. But don't be afraid to break free of that after you have your form and start building some muscle, that’s when the real fun comes in.

-NC

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